Category Archives: Beneficiaries

Life insurance: a vehicle to address special concerns of unmarried couples and the unique family.

If you’re like most people you hear the term “life insurance” and immediately start contemplating your dinner plans or reminiscing about your last vacation. Let’s face it – the topic of insurance doesn’t generally captivate audiences. Although having adequate life insurance is important for most couples, unmarried couples should particularly consider how life insurance can helpContinue Reading

Wrap up of 2012

As you may know, I write this blog because I love educating those in our community about how to protect their families.  Why then haven’t I written since September? Because in September both of my parents fell in and both died in November. Given the travel between hospitals in California and Minnesota and handling clientContinue Reading

Choosing a Guardian for Your Child, Part 4: Explaining Your Decisions to Others

This post continues my series on choosing a guardian for your child(ren).  You know how to choose someone to (or not to) raise your child and discussed your decision with the person(s) whom you chose.  But you want to be sure to do everything possible to avoid future conflict if anything should happen to you. Continue Reading

Grantor Retained Income Trust: An Option for Nontraditional Couples

I’m asked quite often how I feel about the state-by-state recognition of same-sex marriage.  On one hand, I’m delighted to see it happening at all, but the attorney in me can’t help but see all of the headaches come tax season.  There is no Federal recognition for same sex marriage.  That means doing tax returnsContinue Reading

Should I Add My Child to My Account, Part I: Understanding the Perils of Adding Another Person to Your Bank Account

I recently met with a client who informed me that her daughter had financial power over her matters.  ”You mean she has a power of attorney?” I inquired. She responded that “No.  She has signing authority on my accounts.” After several more questions I discovered that her daughter was a joint account holder on herContinue Reading

Gay Marriage and Inheritance Rights, Part 4: Wrestling With Issues Related to Probate Decision to Allow Inheritance From a Gay Spouse in a State That Doesn’t Recognize Such Marriages

This series of posts examines the unique case brought before the Hennepin County Probate Court in which a same sex spouse sought inheritance rights over $250,000 worth of assets from his deceased spouse’s estate. Recall that Mr. Morrison and Mr. Proehl were legally married during the brief window in California and later returned to Minnesota – aContinue Reading

BREAKING: Gay Marriage and Inheritance Rights, Part 3: Court Rules That Gay Spouse CAN Inherit in Minnesota!

As a lawyer who specializes in the field of non-traditional families, I have to admit that this is an outcome that I would never have predicted. Two of my prior posts discussed the inheritance issue facing James Morrison of Hennepin County, Minnesota.  Briefly, Mr. Morrison legally married Thomas Proehl in California during the brief windowContinue Reading

Check Your Beneficiaries Now

We all know the feeling.  You are hired at a new job and show up for your first day all scrubbed up and ready to work.  Then you spend your first day – at least – filling out endless forms.  You are suddenly faced with forms for insurance, retirement, pension, parking permits, sexual harassment policies,Continue Reading

Inheriting From a Partner Case Study, Part 2

In Part I of this series, I discussed the facts of the unique case of Thomas Proehl and James Morrison, a male couple who legally married California before returning to Minnesota.  Mr. Proehl died suddenly of a heart attack leaving a combined $250,000 in an insurance policy without a named beneficiary and a solo bank account.  So,Continue Reading

Are You Set Up to Inherit From Your Partner; Case Study Part I

A Probate Court in Minnesota is set to rule on the issue of whether gay couples who are legally married in another state but reside, and die, in Minnesota may inherit from their same-sex spouse.  Because this is such a major case for my numerous unmarried clients, I will be drafting several blog posts on whyContinue Reading